Trying

Without trying, we cannot achieve anything. The announcers at basketball games often talk about one team “wanting it more" and of how the winning team tried harder and was rewarded for its effort. Players that "want it more" are chosen over similarly skilled players because their efforts often translate into victory.

Where is this going?

One of the main themes running throughout this blog is that trying is important and can help win games.

But let's consider that every proverb has an opposite proverb.

The same announcers will often say things like "She tried to hard" or "He wanted the game too badly." Bjork, the Icelandic singer, sang "You are trying to hard."

When I heard this, it rang true. I was playing a lot of games, trying to get ahead, trying to play perfectly, trying, trying, and trying some more. Trying is commendable, but it is not enough. Thinking and using your skills efficiently are important, as is having fun. Letting your play flow naturally is crucial to achieving the results you deserve.

In closing, try to play your best, make sure you have fun, and spend your energy on the game itself.